The mistake most of us make is that we put our happiness in someone’s hands. We base our happiness on another person but it doesn’t work that way. If you take your happiness and put it in someone elses hands, sooner or later, he or she is going to break it. If you give your happiness to someone else, he or she can always take it away. As soon as you make someone responsible for your happiness, he or she is going to break it because they can never be responsible for someone’s happiness but their own. Happiness never comes from outside of us.
Instead happiness can only come from inside of us. It is the result of your thinking. It is the result of your love. You are responsible for your happiness. We can never make anyone responsible for our own happiness. Don’t expect that someone is going to make you happy and you are going to make that someone happy. It doesn’t matter how much you love each other because the truth is that you will never find true happiness until you create it yourself.